28 September 2008

Songs of Praise?

On the first Thursday of each month we have a meeting that is geared at people who haven't been to SofaChurch, or any church for that matter, before.

We ran a series called Modern Day Prophets where we looked at four unlikely people who might be speaking for God in today's culture, whether they realise it or not. See here for more details:

Banksy
Borat
Scroobius Pip
Mr Benn

However, all good things must come to an end, and our new series starting in June will be called Songs of Praise?

The idea is that each month we will listen to mainsteam songs from a different decade, looking for ways in which they might speak of God. For example... Madonna's Like a Prayer.

Sixties - 5th June
Seventies - 3rd July
Eighties - 7th August
Nineties - 4th September
Noughties - 2nd October

Each evening one person with a special interest will MC, but it would be great if people brought along CDs of tracks that mean something to them. There will be some postcards soon that can be given out to people who might be interested in coming along, or click here to download an image that can be emailed to people.

In the meantime, it would be good to brainstorm a list of songs - please leave your suggestions in a comment for this post.

Two answers

Thanks to everyone who managed to share their ideas. The consensus seems to be that while not everyone personally rates the 'discussion' evenings as their favourite of the four different meeting styles, many do enjoy them and find them challenging and stimulating. Many people cannot attend every week anyway, and some choose the discussion evening as one to skip, others prioritise them. So, I think that we will continue as we are. When it gets to me being on my own discussing quantum mechanics we'll perhaps think again.

As for the slogan, I think we'll go for it.

Word painting (100th post by the way!)

For September's creative worship evening we had a go at 'word-painting', a term coined by John Ruskin to describe the process of spending time looking at something that moves you and writing a detailed description of it. We broke off and found objects around in SofaChurch and the old church attached to it and word painted. After we read them and discussed how God could speak through this creative exercise. Here is what we came up with:

She sat solitary and imposing, stretching forth to some unseen shaft of light. Its silence was deafening but its mood spoke volumes. The silent and attentive witness to the ponderings of man, wise but unspeaking, seeing and not saying. Its soft broad leaves, gently caressing the air, like the hands of a knowing mother, quietly waiting in the background.

Still, calm and settled in a small self contained vacuum. Oxygen and hydrogen mix clear, as prisms of light glimmer and glint through the crystal incisions of the vessel. Angled reflections refract and bend the mind’s eye, some things are seen as others are unseen. Droplets of life’s fluid solution cling firm to the sides, not to be wasted, but to rejoin the clarity of the pool at the base or, to find the ultimate destination and create energy and vitality anew.

Shiny burnished blackened wood. Bearing scars to past performances. Rows of yellowed ebony and ivory silently attentive. Open and receptive, anticipating contact. A respected elder, upright angular and awkwardly posed, promising sound echoing, thunderous rousing, vibrating, filling, consuming, transcending the physical form in worship.

The only light spills from a spotlight outside. The small panes have purple around the edges but the middle has been eroded, the opposite of sanding paint off wood. Three paned are etched with a pattern of flowers geometrically arranged with squares with only the corners drawn like a monochrome Islamic tile. Other panes have similar patterns but they are fainter. The window chills when you look up at it all. It has been here much longer than me. Not many people will see it like this - it stands alone through the nights, unconnected to the the other ones, year on year. It is fragile; glass and thin wood. The replaced panes suggest violent moments. But it is strong enough if someone repairs the damage. Someone must look after it from time to time, painting the wood to prevent it from rotting. It stands tall, quiet, cold. But it is ready to let the light through when the sun rises.

25 September 2008

SofaChurch:girls

Right - we've decided: we lasses are going to get together every Tuesday morning at 10am for coffee, chat and prayer. All SofaChurch ladies very welcome! We'll meet at my house (easiest by far for our youngest lady... high chair, toys and cot on hand) Drop me an email if you need directions.

Sorry to exclude you lads, but we've decided we need a place to talk girly (and moan about you). Perhaps you could start SofaChurch:boys? Talk about DIY, Top Gear etc. (Cue very cross email from Tim... ;o))

21 September 2008

Two questions

Hi everyone - I'd like some opinions on a couple of ideas if you have a minute to respond.

I've noticed that numbers have been very low for the two recent discussion evenings - space and the god particle. I have come up with three possible reasons. One - people have just been busy. Two - the topics have not been interesting enough. Three - the whole idea of having a discussion evening isn't very appealing. Now, the answer probably lies somewhere between all three of these. There isn't much we can do about the first, but as for the others... We could look at whether we change the discussion evening on the third Thursday of the month for something else - alt worship perhaps. We do discuss ideas on other evenings after all. Anyway, I'd like to hear what would suit you all better.

Second idea - I came up with this as a possible tagline for our advertising... SofaChurch - physically comfortable, spiritually challenging. What do you think? Twee? Unneccesary? Descriptive? Misleading? World changing?

Thank you, hope to see you all soon.

worship

Here's an excerpt from a speech given by the late David Foster Wallace, printed in the paper today. I thought he has some interesting ideas; see what you think.

"There are these two young fish swimming along, and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says, "Morning, boys, how's the water?" And the two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes, "What the hell is water?"...

...Because here's something else that's true. In the day-to-day trenches of adult life, there is no such thing as atheism. There is no such thing as not worshipping. Everybody worships. The only choice we get is what to worship. And an outstanding reason for choosing some sort of god or spiritual-type thing to worship - be it JC or Allah, be it Yahweh or the Wiccan mother-goddess or the Four Noble Truths or some infrangible set of ethical principles - is that pretty much anything else you worship will eat you alive. 

If you worship money and things - if they are where you tap real meaning in life - then you will never have enough. Never feel you have enough. It's the truth. Worship your own body and beauty and sexual allure and you will always feel ugly, and when time and age start showing, you will die a million deaths before they finally plant you. On one level, we all know this stuff already - it's been codified as myths, proverbs, clichés, bromides, epigrams, parables: the skeleton of every great story. The trick is keeping the truth up front in daily consciousness. Worship power - you will feel weak and afraid, and you will need ever more power over others to keep the fear at bay. Worship your intellect, being seen as smart - you will end up feeling stupid, a fraud, always on the verge of being found out.

The insidious thing about these forms of worship is not that they're evil or sinful; it is that they are unconscious. They are default settings. They're the kind of worship you just gradually slip into, day after day, getting more and more selective about what you see and how you measure value without ever being fully aware that that's what you're doing. And the world will not discourage you from operating on your default settings, because the world of men and money and power hums along quite nicely on the fuel of fear and contempt and frustration and craving and the worship of self. 

Our own present culture has harnessed these forces in ways that have yielded extraordinary wealth and comfort and personal freedom. The freedom to be lords of our own tiny skull-sized kingdoms, alone at the centre of all creation. This kind of freedom has much to recommend it. But there are all different kinds of freedom, and the kind that is most precious you will not hear much talked about in the great outside world of winning and achieving and displaying. The really important kind of freedom involves attention, and awareness, and discipline, and effort, and being able truly to care about other people and to sacrifice for them, over and over, in myriad petty little unsexy ways, every day. That is real freedom. The alternative is unconsciousness, the default setting, the "rat race" - the constant gnawing sense of having had and lost some infinite thing.

I know that this stuff probably doesn't sound fun and breezy or grandly inspirational. What it is, so far as I can see, is the truth with a whole lot of rhetorical bullshit pared away. Obviously, you can think of it whatever you wish. But please don't dismiss it as some finger-wagging Dr Laura sermon. None of this is about morality, or religion, or dogma, or big fancy questions of life after death. The capital-T Truth is about life before death. It is about making it to 30, or maybe 50, without wanting to shoot yourself in the head. It is about simple awareness - awareness of what is so real and essential, so hidden in plain sight all around us, that we have to keep reminding ourselves, over and over: "This is water, this is water."

David Foster Wallace

12 September 2008

The God Particle

On Thursday 18th September we'll be discussing the current Large Hadron Collider experiment in Geneva and see how it intersects with and informs our faith. One of the main aims is to discover the Higgs Boson, nicknamed the 'God particle'. Might it create black holes on the way? Will it cause the world to end? Will we find God, or will we find out more about about him?

10 September 2008

Film night - Pulp Fiction

Stick with me on this one... Pulp Fiction is an amazing film about grace, about undeserving people being forgiven. It is also a masterpiece of film, incredibly cleverly done.

That said, it isn't suitable for children (sorry), does contain a lot of bad language, and is quite long. So if you are up for it, we will need to start to the film quite promptly in order to have some time after for a discussion.

07 September 2008

One

SofaChurch was one year old yesterday; we had the first meeting on September 6th 2007. Many thanks to everyone who has been involved over the year. I hope you've enjoyed it and met God in some unexpected ways - I have!

06 September 2008

trifle on my dungarees

Inspired by Mrs. Prev, I've started a little blog, with the hope of feeling vaguely creative while my days are too baby-filled to actually create anything proper. 

It'll be a scrapbook of thoughts, poems, general ramblings - not a diary as such (afterall, no one wants to read "got up ridiculously early, picked up baby's discarded toys, wiped baby's puke off shoulder etc" day after day...)

Come and visit and leave me a hello or two!